I keep seeing the same points being made, that aren't relevant to the actual problem at hand.
Yes, Gosling is being a bit of a pussy in this instance, whether its his own thoughts or if he's (most likely) serving as a proxy for the clubs thoughts on the situation, it just looks like handbags and sour grapes, given what Moss said wasn't really that bad, if we're being honest. And tbh, I didn't think Moss had a bad game, and to blame the loss on the ref in this instance is wrong, IMO.
Yes, most players don't really respect the refs as much as they should. Referees no doubt get abuse hurled at them for the performances by players, and respect is a two-way street. From a "moral" standpoint, I wouldn't begrudge a referee having a bit of light banter with the players if they're getting OTT stick from them. Plus, we don't have the whole context of the conversation.
However, there's already an inbuilt solution to this problem of abuse; if a player is abusing a ref, they get issued a booking or a red card. Its that simple. If a player is telling the ref to f*** off and that he's shite at his job, you book the player, and then if it continues, you send him off. If Moss made these comments because of something one of our players said, then he's a moron for not knowing how to manage the situation properly.
I don't think anyone here actually has an issue with Moss making some snidey comments in response to any abuse he was getting; but the fact that he made these comments throughout the game, could be an indicator of bias in his performance. As far as I'm concerned, that's the issue at hand, not whether Moss was justified in his comments. Of course he's "justified", Premier League players on the pitch are mostly whining, cheating little children. But as a professional, experienced referee, he shouldn't be making these kinds of comments ever, as they bring his role on the pitch into disrepute. And the fact that Gosling hasn't been charged at all is VERY telling to me. This would indicate that Moss is in the wrong, but unlike the on-pitch bookings and off-the-pitch fines that players receive, he's probably not going to be punished.
Just my thoughts on it all anyway.