I kind of get this i kind of don’t! My eldest moans a lot about how hard it is to get on the housing ladder. She works full time in the care industry. I sat with her the other day to do a bit of a financial sort out. She has a 45 quid phone contract, Netflix and Amazon prime, eats out once or twice a week, goes clubbing and pays nightclub booze prices, loves a Starbucks, goes to Ibiza, gets McDonald breakfasts on Deliveroo. Id say knowing her friends and my middle child that she isn’t unusual with all of those things for someone in their early 20’s.
At her age the only thing available like that to me was nightclubs…apart from eating out which was something you only did with parents, and in those clubs we didn’t buy any booze just water
. Had all those things been available I probably would be sat writing this in rented accommodation still!
I may have frequented some of the same clubs, and I seem to remember entrance fees and another 'off books' expense for which you maybe forgot to account.
Then there was music. We used to buy a lot of music because it wasn't all at our fingertips. People tend to forget how much you put into it because it was your era, and there were limited ways to hear it back then.
Plus printed media, people would buy weekly and monthly magazines, along with a daily newspaper rather than getting it all for free like now.
In the area I was working, people would buy their lunch every day from a local sandwich place, and often something at breakfast as well on the way in to work.
Then every summer people would go away. Depending on your preferences that could have been Ibiza, Ayia Napa or, if they weren't your scene, then some boozy Greek island or the like.
People would rent lots of movies from a store like Blockbuster in place of having a streaming sub. Two video rentals a month = about one Netflix sub.
There would usually be a meal out somewhere over the week as well, although more likely a small local restaurant with mates and a few drinks rather than one of the chains that dominate now.
Phone costs? No mobile phone, but you'd certainly rack up a bill organising stuff, unless you did it all from your work phone. Calls were expensive in the past! Then, when mobiles arrived for the masses with the 3210 it was another expense.
20-somethings still spent a lot back then. I know I did. I caned it pretty hard, and used every last red cent having a good time for a number of years. There was also the arrival of cheap flights to Europe and the mass spread of weekend city breaks. I partied in lots of European cities on the back of that.
Then there was rent. Cheap as chips compared to now. I was living in a house share in London zone 2. I had a massive attic room all to myself and was paying £60/week. That was all in, including all bills like electricity and water. The landlady even bought us a case of beer at xmas.
Then when I met my wife and we lived in different countries, we spent six months hopping back and forth from Helsinki of a weekend before she moved over.
After a few more years of partying we both decided to chill a bit and maybe find a place to call home. It didn't take too long of a staid lifestyle to scramble together money for a deposit between us. IIRC, £7k was all we needed.
That's the stage that is different now. Young people can do all the modern equivalent of what we did and piss their money up the wall. Good luck to them. Have a bit of fun whilst you're young. Everyone should get to experience it a bit. We're shouldn't be in a Victorian economy. However, now when they want to move on and settle a bit it's different. We could have a realistic chance of getting a deposit in a relatively short time if we put our minds to it.
Faced with the prospect of needing to save for 10+ years to get a deposit for a first place, I don't think I would have had the staying power. And whilst I'm sure we'll hear Yorkshiremen style stories of people who did, for most people in their 20s it would have been the same.