Not sure I am buying what you are selling.
For one thing, luckily, our players are out there, not us, and hopefully they have much stronger psyches than most of us do, when it comes to the fears and opportunities (although, by the look of that first half, they sure did look very reluctant).
Also, after four visits of 2-0, 3-1, 3-0, and 5-1, I am sure that a point would have been "something special".
However, I had a win in mind, which would have taken us to 14 points, and as it happened, would have placed us in 5th position ahead of Arsenal, ManU and Tottenham after 20% of the season done. Would have to have been considered a high moment in time, no?